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Name: Sarah E. Parker


No 5 Tolu Street
Agege, Lagos, Nigeria

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Watch yourself. This woman can suck you in like a black widow. I bought her story and sent a large sum of money to her. And to a Tola Craig, supposedly a controller of Royal Insurance. The contact was Elvin Trace custodian manager of the Royal Insurance Company. I wish I would have found this site long before. It would have saved me a LOT of money. I wish there was a solid way to file charges against them.

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Hi, I have been in contact with this con-woman, not sent any money though, got very suspicious with the Elvin Trace and Tola Craig bit and royal insurance. used an investigation company to check out things in the states and nigeria, nothing could be verified. Her pictures are on too, if you care to check them out, her screen name was Barbora!! be careful nothing adds up with this woman or anything she claims..... been there and done it !! Contact was through Amatuer
2010-04-23, 23:07:22
anonymous from Australia  
Just wanted to add to my previous comment, I'm now having some fun here and seeing how long I can string her along..... she told me she is holed up in a motel and owing US$ 28.450. They won't let her out unless she pays. She has US$980,000 in two black boxes that she wants shipping out, then once recveived she would give the codes to open them, send her enough money to pay her bills and get a plane ticket !!!!! then we would start our life together.. So watch out guys.....
What a fantastic site this is....THANK YOU !!
2010-04-24, 05:00:37
anonymous from Australia  
This was the first e mail:-

How are you doing?I feel i let you know more about me,my personality,interests and hobbies.
Personality: I am an open minded person,trustworthy,cool,loving,caring,understanding,down to earth.I been straight and want same in return because i wont treat people the way i don't want to be treated.As you know that Greatness lies in Simplicity,don't you think so?.
Interests and hobbies:i like playing chess,listening to music,like traveling,dining out,love attending live jazz concerts.I like reading poetry,novels,arts and crafts.My favorites are:Thai food,French toast and red wine,favorite actor:Angelina Jolie,Fav color:Yellow.
I am glad you wrote to me,it shows you are really interested in knowing me.Its good we get it started with some introduction so as to know who and what we want in relationship.My birthday is in May.Age is nothing but a number,Love,Understanding,cares,respect and Honesty are the things that matters most in a relationship.

I'm single with no kids, 5'8 brown eyes, brown hair, Caucasian(white), i have a Clever Quick Witted sense of humor, i don't smoke, don't drink, christian, Gemini. I like Dining, Outdoor Activities, Reading, Watching Sports, Computers-Internet, Playing Sports.I am a nice woman seeking for a caring and honest man to spend the rest of my life with.I am looking for a man that is tender hearted, kind, considerate of others needs, one that would appreciate having a wife that would love him in a way that he's not been loved before,i want a man that is not too hurt and not too hard to trust again and can give himself to a wife to be loved and taken care of in a way that will bring a joy of life and an appreciation he will look forward to every day. There is a lifestyle of marriage in the Lord that gives life and purpose to being married and can really be enjoyed. I am looking for that quality of marriage are you looking for that kinda marriage?

As you know that its myriads that someone has lots of interested men in here but its my choice to choose one,the one my heart goes for,someone i can lean on,to give me the love i have always wanted to have.So tell me about yourself,what you do and everything you need to tell me about yourself...and lets see how it goes from here.But anyway,Here`s a little info about me I like to go out to dinner, go dancing, go to the movies, workout, travel, see new things. I enjoy the simple things like the ocean, cuddling at home watching a movie with someone special, I`m a extremely romantic, passionate and affectionate woman.

Likes:I like people been honest,truthful cos trust is a vital phenomenon.i like people with intelligence and a good sense of humor..I love dogs and i have a dog,her name is lilly.

Dislikes:I get pissed off easily at people not trying to be real,i hate pretense and i feel trust should be the foundation of any good relationship.

I am a lips and eyes person... I heard them say that eyes is the window of our soul... I love to gazed at those eyes that speaks to my heart without saying a word... I am drawn to smiling eyes... & lips? And why lips? Because I'm such a big fan of a Kiss... There is nothing in this world that can recreate the touch and the feeling of a long passionate kiss that would melt your heart......I also enjoy lots of Hugs, talking, laughing, Holding hands, finding out that we have alot of things in common.........I am a quality woman who is confident, honest, kind, smart, fun, trustworthy, supportive, loving, loves kids, outgoing, down to earth, friendly, great sense of humor, sociable, respectful (I would always treat you with respect). I have good morals, traditional values, I`m a lady who is a very good listener and someone that you could talk too about anything. I`m looking for a long term relationship and a life long lover. I also want someone that is honest with me at all times.

I Look forward to hearing from you very soon
Hope your having a wonderful day!!


seems quite reasonable as a 'get to know you' type of thing

this is further down the road:-

Dear Nige,

Thanks for your message,I appreciate the time you took in writing me,it shows you really want something outta this as i am.
I knew all your thought were that i am in states right now.I am so sorry if i kept you on suspense.I intentionally told you all about me because i hate to lie to someone that i think i should tell the real truth about me.I have no other choice than to tell you the truth about myself.I am right here in Nigeria,Africa fed up of life and even thinking of committing suicide but i guess i should hold on till i hear from you maybe you are interested in me or not.I understand that this internet stuff is hard to believe because of what people do with it nowadays as i fell into this mess,thats why i am in the condition i am in today.I will appreciate your help and i will love to hear more about you.

I really want to get out of here and come back to the states. I really need your trust and help to get me out of this trouble i am into and i promise i will not get you disappointed.I will really appreciate your help towards this. Once i get there, we will arrange things in order and we can start a new life together, and i want to believe that you will not let me down. As i've discussed what brought me down here from the states. While i was coming here, the african guy told me to come with enough money for investment and i even went to the extent to sell my inherited house just because i want to leave the states and make my self happy thinking i had finally found the man i have been waiting for all my life.I came in here with a total sum of $980,000.00 which is all the money i realize from my Dad's business and contracts renumeration. Because the African guy told me of an idea to investment in African Sculptures and Antiques which i did never knew he was after my money.I was blindfolded with love thinking i have found someone i would spend the rest of my life with.

When i got here, he made all things possible means just to get the money from me and get away with my money.when i noticed this,i took the money and my traveling boxes and deposited it with a Shipping/Insurance Company here in Africa in order to safe myself and my assets. Thereafter,i left the guy's apartment to a new apartment where i am in right now and from which i am writing to you now. Now, i'm in need of your help, have gotten the enough money to run myself when i get to the states, i want to come over to your end so we can start a new life together, i don't want to live here anymore, you know i'm a foreigner here and it is absolute danger for me here, so that is why i need your kind assistance. How i want you to help me? I have the money hidden from the guy here in West Africa and I've left his apartment, because i might get setup if i did not act fast, so for me to be more safe and secure, i put this money in a trunk box and got it locked up with a security code known to me only, and i deposited the box with some of my traveling luggages with a Shipping and Insurance Company who render private diplomatic delivery service and i told them that the box is my traveling luggage, which i want to send forth to the states because i'm returning home, then i paid them up their custody and security fee, but i did not tell them that the box contains money in order to make everything secure and safe.

I want the box sent to you while i catch up with you as soon as it is been delivered to you then i come over to meet you and we can start a new life together thats if you find me interesting and still want to have a relationship with me. Every arrangement for the delivery is kinda perfect,i have obtained customs papers for private freight and there are seals on the box showing that it is a private delivery and check performed, it is free from customs checks, it will be delivered at your door step by the diplomats of the security company, you do not need to burn out to receive it.

The boxes has security lock code known to me only, only me can open the box, except if i tell anyone the Code, so the box cannot be opened on the way for delivery to you.Therefore,i want you to contact me as soon as possible, so that i can give you all my deposit details and information for you to make the Clearance from the Shipping Company as my finance who is to receive my box for me there so they can be rest assured that the box is safe for delivery since my Finance would be receiving them for me . And once the boxes gets to you,i will let you know the lock codes to open the boxes and the instructions, then you can open the boxes in order to have some money sent to me for my flight to the states. Once i get there, we shall invest the money together and start a new family, provided you will not disappoint neither take advantage of me.I hereby promise 15% of the total fund for you to meet any personal needs and we can still get something done with the balance.I am counting on you with trust and i will appreciate your trust towards this and hoping to hear from you and to meet you in person. Let me hear from you as soon as possible, so that i can give you the deposit details and the contact of the shipping company to arrange the shipment asap.

Take Care.

Now we start to open things up a little.....:-

Hi Nige,
Thanks for being caring and concerned about me.Yes,like i said that i am from the states and also my ex took my passport with him.He took it with him,cos he did not want me to move out of here,cos he wanted to run away with my money before i took my money and ran away from him.Yes,i know about the embassy,but i already told you that i need to get my boxes moved out of here,to know that they are safe from this guy here.

I have been apart from him immediately i found out about his dodgy ways that he wanted to rip me off my money.I have been away from him for about a year now.I got here September 2008,i have been here for about 18months.

Baby,i have always been honest with you and i will surely be honest with you.I want you to know that i will not do anything to hurt you,cos i won't do what i don't want to be done to me to someone else.I have told you everything as it happened,just for you to know about my situation over here,you should know i will be up and honest with you.I really want to be out of here,and that is why i have explained everything you need to know to you on here,i know i need to help you with all the informations for you to help me out with this,and this is what i have done sweetie,so that we can get on fine and to work things out to be together real soon.

I will be waiting for your next mail baby,and hope you get back to me asap,so we can get on from there.Do you still have other things you would like to know,i am here and ready to tell you all of them,anything you want to hear,cos i have got nothing to hide from you,i am an open minded person and someone that can be trusted.

Take care of yourself for me

Everytime I asked questions they never seemed to be answered, or at best skirted around.... so no concrete facts to work with.
perhaps a little poem would convince me everything is alright..... ha ha yeah !!

My Dear,

When I’m talking with you
You give me hopes and dream
With each passing day
There is a smile on my face.

You bring a joy to my heart,
That I never felt before,
Every word you say’s
I like you more and more.

I will cherish within my soul
How much you mean to me…
You’ll never really know,
How much happy I am.

Even we’re far away
Always remember that,
That I’m thinking of you
And you’re always in my heart...

Thinking of you

My Love,

How are you doing? I hope all is fine with you. I had missed you so much hun, I wish am there with you hun. I'm so lonely here and it is very boring here, i'm tired and sick of staying here ,I can't wait to leave here and be with you . Hun here is the truth about what happen to me in the past.

That is what i was doing in the past, I met a guy that introduced me to it and i accepted his offer cos things was very hard with me then. I have no father and mother to ran to nobody that can help me out, I have nobody to call on, I was fed up and got frustrated but i have no choice than to do what he said. Later on i realized that the guy was using me to make money so i broke up with him and stopped the work. Barbara was the name given to me when i was doing the job, I purposely sent you those pic for you to know the truth....Have been thinking how to tell you the truth but i was afraid but i had to do it that way. Hun i'm really sorry about what happen, I know its hard for you to believe this but i want you to know that i will never hide anything from, I will never hurt you or make you sad in anyway hun, I love you so much and i want to spend the rest of my life with you. I want to have your kids Nige, I want you to forget about the past, the future is very important to us hun, Lets start a new life together...we are meant to be together my love...Thats why we are together. I love you so much Nige, I can't wait to be with you, see you for real and make love to you.
I had missed you so much my love, I've missed reading your notes...I hope you get my text messages. Let me know when you are back online.

Happy Easter To You And Your Family.

Love you so much


Now theres no family, she now wants my kids and we will grow old together

Hi Hun

How are you doing? I hope all is fine with you my love. I'm sorry for not getting back to you on time, I had to get some rest before i can get back to you, I'm very sorry cos i can see that are mad at me which you don't have to.

Hun things are hard with me over here, I'm tired and sick of this place...I really can't wait to get the hell out of here. Well hun i already told you the other day that i live in a motel, after all what happened to me in the past, how the african man used me. I have to live him cos if i don't he may he kill me and take my money away, thats why i left his place to live where i am right now in a motel writing this note to you. Hun i love you so much, I can't wait to be with you...I'm tired and sick of this place, doing things alone. I wanna share every damn thing i do with you, I think we are meant to be together, to make each other, correct our mistakes and live the rest of our lives together as we want it to be.

Hun i want to be part of your life, I want to live the rest of my life with you. I can live without so many things, but there's something truly special that I wouldn't want to live without, something that gets me through anything life brings to my door, and makes each day worth living...Your love!

I love you so much my love, I can't stop thinking about you, You are all i want in my life. I'm sorry once again for not getting back to you on time. I'm very happy to chat with you today, It makes me feel great and happy.

Love you so much.

Thinking of you.


How can you be holed up in a hotel room, owing $28,450 and still be there. I used to run a check in the states and nigeria having given them all the facts I had. They came up with no traceable evidence that sarah parker was ever in the USA or had ever entered Nigeria. Also if you had $980,000 sitting in a security company not far away wouldn't you go get some more cash ???????

next post I'll show the royal insurance side of things.... keep safe and vigilant..
2010-04-24, 05:15:17
anonymous from Australia  
Right guys, the company that wants some dosh:-


We received the information you have sent to us,as we checked through our data base and found out that the information given to us corresponds with our record,depositor Miss Sarah Parker with deposit code RISC-576-PLG45,sort/clearance code - RISC-576-45/MP5633.

There are certain procedures you need to know before proceeding with the shipment.


1.In no way would the consignment be delivered to someone else,except the recipient whose information we have on our database.

2.We need an address where the consignment would be delivered to,before shipment can take place.

3.We need an id or passport of the recipient as proof of the recipient's identity upon delivery.

4.Note that a security clearance fee of 900USD is needed to be paid before the consignment can be released to go on flight for delivery.The money should be remitted via Western Union Money Transfer or Money Gram Money Transfer.

Below is the information you need to remit the money to:

Name:Tola Craig
Address:10 Allen Avenue
State: Lagos
Post Code: 23401

Note that full payment information should be sent,such as the total money sent,full senders name and the MTCN if you remit the payment through Western Union or 8 digit reference number if you pay through Money Gram.

Once these procedures are fully taken,then you have no delay with the delivery for your consignment as we will have the shipment schedule for delivery to you,which will not take longer than 2-3 days for delivery to your destination without any alteration as your consignment would be delivered to you with our private diplomatic carriage service.

Thanks for your co-operation,
Elvin Trace(Custodian Manager)
Royal Insurance/Security Company.

Hello Nige,
I am sorry i have not contacted you,this is due to the holidays here and that was the reason why there was a little delay in getting in touch with you because i need to make sure that things are being worked upon and sorted out concerning the shipment of your consignment before getting in touch with you.

There is a situation at hand that needs to be attended to,before your consignment can go on flight for delivery to you in Australia.We have been notified that the Nigeria Custom has not allowed your consignment to go on flight,this is due to the new entering policy into Australia.You will need to obtain the Nigeria Custom Exit Clearance to have the consignment to be allowed to leave the shores of the country to be shipped to Australia as earlier scheduled.We still have our diplomats at the airport,set to make delivery.Note that the consignment can still go on flight for delivery as soon as you obtain the custom clearance for your consignment and to avoid custom hold on it.Once the consignment is taken into the custom's custody,your consignment would be held in transit while still in the custom's custody where there might be excess charges on your consignment because it would be lodged in the custom's custody while in transit,still waiting to be cleared and released for shipment to be delivered to you in Australia.The earlier you get the exit clearance,the better it is for you to avoid excess charges your consignment and it will be good for us to have your consignment delivered to you in couple of days as soon as the custom clearance is obtained.

Below is the breakdown of the payment you need to pay on your consignment to be released to go on flight.

Excise Duty:$1,820.04

Here is the information you need to remit the money to.

Name: Kola Lawson
Address: 10 Thomas Salako,
City: Ikeja
State: Lagos
Country: Nigeria
Test Question: My favorite pet
Test Answer: Labrador

You need to send the payment information such as MTCN,full sender's name, and total money paid,when you put the money through the system for confirmation of payment remitted to obtain the custom clearance certificate so we can continue with the delivery modalities.More details will be made known to you about the latest development in cause of the delivery.Note that shipment will proceed as soon as the Nigeria Custom Exit Clearance Certificate is obtained and your consignment will be delivered to you in couple of days.

Thanks for your co-operation,
Elvin Trace.

Now I started to ask questions to get some answers.....

Hello Nige,
Listen to me,you don't have to question the integrity of my company.I can not provide you with the registration document to my company,this is confidential to my company and it can not be given to you,not even to be sent through email.

If you need to know anything about my company,then you get hold of me on the phone and let us discuss.I have dealt with clients before you,and you will not be the last client i will get involved with.I have told you what you need to do,and in your own interest,you should comply with all instructions given to you,so as to avoid any delay or further complications with the customs on your consignment.

In no way would you know more about this country and the environment more than me.I know the address i gave to you to remit the money to,it exists,and i know before sending the address to you.If you are not comfortable sending the money to the address given to you,then send it to the previous address given to you,where you remitted the first payment to,and to Tola Craig.

You have been told that your consignment will be shipped immediately the custom clearance is obtained for the release of your consignment,and it will be delivered to your doorstep in 2days.Get back to me when you get this,i await the payment info from you,so we can proceed with the delivery.

Thanks for your co-operation,
Elvin Trace.

So what does a guy do now....... stall and bide some time cos I'm going to have some fun and string them along as far as I can....... ooo yes !!!!!
2010-04-24, 13:48:26
anonymous from United States  
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2010-04-27, 05:59:39
anonymous from Australia  
Further info regarding the subject ' Sarah E. Parker '

I used Wymoo to conduct a background check in the states and nigeria, to be sure:-

sarah e parker did not exist anywhere in the usa, name a DofB could not be traced.
School & college she claimed to have been to.... no record.

No passport or visa details... no known person

5 Tolu Road/Street does not exist, neither does the Tasia Hotel. public and government records were local post iffice records.

immigration confirmed no entry or exit from nigeria by the subject.

Royal Insurance does not exist as a public company. 10 Allen Street does exist, even on google!! I think the only thing that I on my own managed to find !!!!!

Elvin Trace got his back up when I asked for a copy of his company registration certificate.

Most of my questions were left unanswered, even webcam.... dropped it not so long ago !! yeah right...

Hey, hidden in the states, you wanna get our heads together and see if we can get your dosh back..... let me know on here and we'll sort out another ways of comms.. cheers fella.

Just a quick note to all who are dealing with russian girls.... Yes they do ask for US Dollars. It is the currency everyone deals in, wages etc etc hush hush in an envelope, tax thing..... so don't be alarmed when they ask for dollars... its natural !!!!

Stay safe and alert people....... regards
2010-04-27, 10:53:48
OJAS from United States  
2010-04-28, 00:02:49
anonymous from Australia  
Cheers OJAS,
Yeah I saw that thread and article, thankfully I didn't lose my money to the bitch scammer, only what I invested in searching her out. I was more concerned with the chap from the states who started this thread before I got to it..... cos he said he lost a lot of dosh.

Fantastic site....... great network of people pitting againgst the low life air thieves..
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